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Part 1. Hold unpopular views on political and social issues. A central part of being a rebel is to develop views that go against popular, traditional views.
Musical rebels like Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur based much of their work and philosophies on fighting the establishment, defying expectations of their peers, and acting the opposite of others' expectations. The United States and other free countries were founded on unpopular beliefs. In the s during the civil rights movement, interracial marriage was deemed illegal in certain states. The people who fought against it are now credited as being upholders of freedom and thinkers who were ahead of their time.
Remember that "popular" is relative. People at your school may believe partying and doing drugs is the popular social norm.
Defy this norm by being clean and proudly advertising that to others. Question popular and common beliefs. Part of holding unpopular views is to question things that most people believe at face value. The French scientist Georges Cuvier tried to convince people that African-Americans were not as smart as Caucasians because of their skull shape and size. His student, Friedrich Tiedemann, questioned this theory and showed that there was no scientific evidence to support this commonly accepted "truth.
Remember that accepting things at face value is common among people because it is the easiest. Questioning things isn't just a way to stand out, it is a way to arrive at the truth. When you question things that turn out to be true, you will be held in high regard by your peers.
Most people in the 16th century believed that the Earth was flat. Pythagoras, the person who proved the opposite, is now revered in both science and mathematics. Know that some conformity is normal. You don't have to be completely different from everyone around you to be a rebel. Following trends is part of being human, and actually helps us navigate everyday life.
Musicians like Kurt Cobain and Tupac Shakur are credited as being some of the most rebellious artists in their respective genres. Still, they tended to dress and behave in ways that were similar to their peers. Most people aren't even aware of when they are conforming.
You might notice that on the path to being a rebel, you'll find that there are others who share and believe in similar views. This isn't uncommon, and is often the way movements and revolutions start. Think of rebellion as a movement, not just an attitude. Being a rebel involves taking physical action, not just holding and believing in unpopular views. Even if you're determined to be a rebel without a cause, you will need to show others that you're your own person.
You don't have to hurt other people's feelings or say outlandish things to be a rebel. Being a rebel simply means displaying behaviors that are uncommon or unpopular. For example, it may be popular and common for your peers to play football and wear letterman jackets on campus. Do the opposite by wearing torn jeans and obscure band t-shirts. Part 2. Put your own spin on the rules or on common behavior. You don't necessarily have to break the rules to be a rebel. All you have to do is act in a way that stands out from what's common.
For example, if you play sports and have a letterman jacket, stand out from your athletic peers by removing the sleeves of your letterman and wearing it like a vest. If you are required to call teachers proper names like "Mr. Moser" or "Mrs. LaGuerta," put a playful spin on it by calling them "Mr. Most-definitely" or "Mrs. Or, you could tuck your shirt into trousers with holes at the knees. If your peers tend to walk slowly while looking down at their phones, grab some attention by skipping through the hallways on campus.
Strut proudly, sing a song while skipping, swing your arms like a gorilla. People tend to remember things that are unusual or difficult to understand.
Speak your mind, especially when others are afraid to. Speaking your mind doesn't mean just blurting out whatever you are thinking at a given moment. It means advocating for your opinions and beliefs, especially on issues you feel strongly about.
You may feel that your cafeteria is severely lacking in yummy foods like burgers and tacos. Tell the school administration that they should include more foods that teenagers enjoy. If you can't rally up people to present your case, do it by yourself.
Having numbers may be a powerful way of showing people that you mean business, but it isn't the only way. As long as you provide solid evidence for your beliefs, you should be fine for example, good tasting foods help learning because they increase serotonin levels, and high serotonin is essential for memory.
If your school is hosting a poetry slam, write some spoken word about how the cafeteria food sucks. Paint a picture of foods that you want to eat at school, and hang it on people's lockers. Listen to music your parents don't like. People have different tastes in music, and your parents won't like everything you like. That's fine, but listening to music should be about enjoyment you get.
Hang out with friends your parents don't like. If you want to spend time, or be friends, with someone, don't let your parents control that. They may have good reasons, and you should be willing to listen to them and give counterarguments, but these are your friends. Break curfew. If there is a time you are supposed to be home or in bed, ignore it. Stay up later hanging out with friends or doing something else you enjoy.. Be careful since there might be a legal curfew in your community and you may be sent home by the police.
Alternatively, this can be an opportunity to show you can be responsible, by coming home even late and being able to operate normally the next day. Part 2. Quit something your parents want you to do. Maybe your parents really wanted you to play an instrument or a certain sport, but you just aren't crazy about it. You should be looking for activities that you find enjoyable, not what your parents think you should be doing.
Make sure you don't like the activity before quitting. If you're having fun, it doesn't matter if your parents want you to do it. Choose a different religion.
Choosing a religion is a difficult thing, and your parents have probably played a big role in that. If you don't like the faith they want you to follow, look for something else that is more fulfilling. Consider asking a friend for help, or try to learn more about different faiths with library books or the internet until you feel comfortable making a new choice. Argue with them. If your parents tell you something or give instructions, don't just accept it.
Ask why, suggest doing something else, or tell them that what they are telling you is wrong. Don't mix your rebellion with angry words and insults. You are trying to assert your individuality, not write your parents out of your life.
Screaming and insults will not get positive results, and will probably result in them yelling back at you. Take positive risks. An important part of rebelling is making sure you get something out of it. Try new things that you believe you will help you grow as a person. These can be different classes at school, trying a new sport or activity, or even changing your clothes and the music you listen to for something you like.
Your parents may not like it, but it will make it easier to understand and explain. Avoid negative risks. These are things that could potentially cause serious harm to you or other people.
Some of these activities are even illegal. Activities like smoking, drinking, taking drugs, unprotected sex, or gang activity can have consequences more serious than anything your parents come up with.
Part 3. Think about things your parents ask you to do. This doesn't sound very rebellious, but it is the first step to doing your own thing. When you are younger, you do what your parents tell just because. As you grow up, it's important to think about what they want for you, and whether you agree.
Download Article Explore this Article methods. Tips and Warnings. Related Articles. Method 1. Expand your horizons. Learning new things is the first big step in becoming a rebel. Try listening to different styles of music than you usually do. Thrash or Death metal is a great way to go. Or try reading a book by an author that you have never read. Reading is a great way to expose yourself to new ideas. Question the rules. Don't just accept the rules or practices at your school without thinking about them.
Contemplate them and decide if they make sense or not before deciding whether you to obey them. Use the 5 Whys interrogation technique. Ask the question "why? For example, if your teacher asks you not to chew gum in class, ask "why?
Ask "why? Form your own opinions. Being rebellious is a sign of normal brain development and helps develop analytical thinking as an adult. Having your own opinions will not only make you more of a rebel, but it will make you more interesting to have a conversation with as well. You might even sway others to begin seeing the world as you do.
Ignore public opinions. Be yourself. Some people may not like your attitude or the image you project, but part of being a rebel is learning that everyone has an opinion. Use your freedom of expression.
Say what you think, even if it isn't popular or appropriate. Don't say what others expect you to say just to live up to their expectations. Method 2. Learn from style rebels. Cultivating a rebellious style today is not the same as it used to be.
You might not think your Batman or Bart Simpson shirt is rebellious, but if you look at fashion styles by designers like Jeremy Scott you can see how easily it can be. He designs styles for celebrities that are style rebels, like Katy Perry, and many of his designs can be easily mimicked without spending too much money. Be creative. Dressing rebelliously is more than just ripping your jeans or getting a piercing. To cultivate a rebellious style notice what everyone else in school wears.
Then be brave enough to wear something different. When people can tell you are dressing differently intentionally, it will make you seem more accomplished and improve your perceived status. Consider getting a permanent or temporary piercing if your school doesn't allow them.
Fake a tattoo. Wear your hair messy. Creativity in your style is the key to being a rebel. Be bold. You don't need to go over the top, but you want a bold element to your style to make your look pop. No matter what crowd you gravitate toward, you can still keep the same social circles while dressing like you want. For example, Young Thug is a well-known hip-hop artist and fashion rebel.
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